A man has written to relationship expert, Deidre about what he discovered his wife uses to pleasure herself.
I found three vibrators in my wife’s wardrobe when I was looking for a cabin bag. I was going away on a business trip and when I found the suitcase, the s*x aids were inside.
We’ve been married for ten years. She’s 42 and I’m 45 and everything in our marriage is great, but I have had erection difficulties so we hardly ever have s*x.
I did get some medication from my doctor but I only have the courage to take it if I masturbate when my wife is out. I don’t want to embarrass my wife by telling her what I’ve found but it’s clear she misses s*x too.
What can I do?